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Thursday, December 31, 2020

Surviving 2020 The good, the bad, and the funny!

 Well, they say that Hindsight is always 2020 vision. This year started out so promising! A new Year, a new Decade! 20 Years removed from the fear that was “Y2K.” So Full of Hope! But what happened certainly has been unprecedented. None of us could have seen it coming or predicted what took place. But if you are reading this, than like me, you survived the year that was 2020! Each of us has walked through the muck and made it out the other side. The whole Human Race, collective, together and alone. It’s a lot to process. I know. But I’m going to try. To put into words the Good, the Bad, and the Funny of 2020! This is the story of this year, as it happened to us; Buckle your seat belt!

 

The Bad:

  1. My Husband had a Heart Attack. In February. He was only 53 and a healthy eater. But has a family history of heart disease.
  2. COVID 19. A global Pandemic, like nothing we’ve seen in our lifetime.
  3. Nation wide Shut-down.
  4. I was furloughed from my job.
  5. 3 of my Kids’ jobs shut down.
  6. I had to have oral surgery during all this.
  7. Grocery store shelves were scarily empty, and you couldn’t find toilet paper.
  8. They stopped making Caffeine Free Diet Dr. Pepper due to an aluminum shortage! I mean come on! This is one of life’s necessities!
  9. I received a lot of hate from friends and family for speaking out against an immoral President and speaking up for Black Lives Matter. 2 things that I would deem worthy of speaking out for. I really do try not to post too many political statements, but sometimes I just have to say something! My husband doesn’t like me to, because of course it’s hard to see someone you love be attacked. But A. If Immoral behavior was wrong when Bill Clinton was President, which it was! Than it is wrong when Donald Trump is President, who is even worse! Leaders should be held to a higher standard! And B. Yes, All Lives Matter, but that can’t happen until Black Lives Matter! Love always champions others! Saying Black Lives Matter does not take away from any other life. The strong have to speak up for the hurting. Make America Kind Again!
  10. Our Refrigerator went out, in the middle of the shutdown. Yay!
  11. And the our Oven stopped working.
  12. My Daughter went through a tough break up.
  13. Tiger King! The worse! If 2020 was a T.V. show!
  14. Both my Daughters in Law’s Fathers faced Health Crisis’! Which of course affected them, my sons, and my grandbabies.
  15. Many people I know lost their parents and other family members to the Corona Virus. Having lost both my parents and my In Law’s, I can’t imagine going through that when you couldn’t even be with them as they past, or have a proper funeral. Or gather with your family and loved ones for comfort while mourning your loss.
  16. My Sister in Law lost her only sister on Christmas Eve. My heart breaks for her, as I know what loosing your only sister feels like. There are just things a woman can only talk about with her sister. I miss mine terribly even still.
  17. People I know and love got the virus.
  18. A lot of people lost their businesses and their livelihoods.
  19. My brother’s cancer has come back with a vengeance. And other people I know and care about were diagnosed with cancer this year.
  20. My Daughter was diagnosed with some Health Issues.
  21. My Daughter admitted to us just at the beginning of the shutdown, what we had suspected, that she has been dealing with an eating disorder. So we had to try to get her help remotely.
  22. We couldn’t see our Families.
  23. We couldn’t go anywhere!
  24. Survived the Hottest Summer ever on record in Phoenix!
  25. I have to work, sometimes for 8 hours or more wearing a face mask.
  26. More that 1 member of my family dealing with Anxiety issues during all this.
  27. I had to give up, among other things, my Black Friday Shopping Extravaganza this year. As my husband, due to his heart attack, is high risk. It just isn’t worth it!
  28. No big Family Gatherings. Like making my mom’s Christmas Cookies all together. Or having our annual Family Christmas Party!  
  29. My BookClub couldn’t meet!
  30. No Gatherings. No Christmas or Birthday Parties. No New Years Eve Party! 

 

You know this has been a tough year, when it can turn an eternal optimist, like me, someone who always sees the glass as half full, who can always find the silver lining, and look on the bright side, to get discouraged. I have said repeatedly this year (to God, and to those closest to me) “I can not handle one more thing to worry about!” I need this to end! Enough is enough! I can’t handle anymore! But it is not in my nature to let evil win. I am determined to have the good out weigh the bad! And I have so much to be Grateful for! We all do. So here is my Silver Lining. The good things I could find in this otherwise horrible year.

 

The Good:

  1. The timing of my Husbands heart attack. If it had happened just weeks later, none of us would have been able to be with him in the hospital.
  2. My sweet Granddaughter was born! This will forever be the absolute best thing to come out of 2020!! She has brought so much Joy into our lives!
  3. My Daughter in Law, a Nurse, was on Maternity Leave, so she didn’t have to work during the unstable, frightening beginning of the Pandemic.
  4. Both of my girls thankfully still live at home. Had they been out on their own, having to deal with all this alone, it would have been devastating.
  5. Husband now works from home!
  6. I got a new job! Even though my hubby’s heart attack happened on the day I was there filling out my new hire paperwork, which postponed my start date, and it shut down a month later I still had it.
  7. All through the shutdown my other job, a Law Firm (essential) even though we stopped seeing clients in person, allowed me to get out of the house. I need that!
  8. My Daughter got a second part time job, now like her mother, works 2.
  9. We never ran out of Toilet Paper!!
  10. My Daughter started as a Youth Leader at our Church, once they opened back up. And is doing really well.
  11. Daughter met a nice new guy to start dating!
  12. Our oldest son turned 30!! And though we couldn’t celebrate it, how we would have liked to, Friends and Family from all over sent Birthday Cards for a Socially Distanced Party!!
  13. We saved money not using as much gas, not shopping or eating out, Etc.
  14. We found a really good Therapist, Dietician and Group that specializes in eating disorders for my daughter! She is doing really well! We are so grateful and proud of her!
  15. We had the extra money to do all that! Other years, that might not have been possible.
  16. We, our Kids, and Grandkids have all stayed mostly healthy!
  17. I started having regular Zoom meetings with all my Brothers and Sister’s in Law, as well as with our Small Group, to stay connected.
  18. My girls thrived during quarantine! They found very creative and crafty new hobbies! From Knitting, and Crocheting to Painting and Plants. They played games and put together puzzles.
  19. I discovered coloring is very therapeutic. Doing puzzles, for me, not so much! I’ll stick to Reading!
  20. I had lots of extra time to read! I had set a goal to read 27 Books this year, but ended up reading over 35!!
  21. Was able to get caught up on shows we’d been wanting to watch, but never seemed to have the time before. 
  22. Thankfully I don't have school aged children at home that I had to home school! That could have been a disaster! 
  23. Found new local businesses to support in our community.
  24. Met a lot of our neighbors while out for our daily walks, since more people were home.
  25. I was still able to get my hair cut whenever I needed to, as my stylist lives with me!
  26. My Husband got lots of opportunities to lead Worship! Plus we got to watch him live from home! 
  27. We celebrated 33 Years of Marriage this year! 
  28. With more free time and nothing to do, my Hubby's been online shopping! Surprising me with a Kindle for Reading and a new Kate Spade Bag!! #Score 
  29. We voted in a new President!
  30. Dress for Success found new ways to help women in the community!
  31. Churches were forced to look outward rather than inward and find new ways to be!
  32. Teachers, Nurses and other Essential Workers became the Heroes! And it’s about time!!
  33. People put up Christmas Decorations early! And more houses than ever decorated this year! And we all needed it!
  34. My favorite Radio Station started playing nothing but Christmas Music early, and kept it going longer that other years!
  35. 2020 Memes! The whole world found something that united us! Disdain for 2020!
  36. We each got a Pod! The group of people you still saw and got together with. For us it is our kids and grandkids!
  37. Hamilton!!
  38. Jimmy Fallon at Home!
  39. Drew Barrymore’s new Talk Show.
  40. Of all the people in the world, who would have thought it would be Dolly Parton who saves the world?! A children’s book needs to be written about that! At the very beginning of the Pandemic she had the wherewithal to donate a million dollars to COVID research. And they are saying it’s greatly due to that that we have a Vaccine so quickly. Dolly, you forever have our gratitude!
  41. A Vaccine! My Daughter in Law got it the day after Christmas! And my Husband get’s his January 7th. Thank you God!

 

So, you see, the good outweighs the bad! Even in the most horrible of times! Grace abounds! I don’t know what all you have lived through this year, but I do know that it was hard. You are not alone. 2020 was unlike any other year. But it is ending! Thank Goodness! And we survived! We made it through! And I am Praying 2021 is very much different than 2020. That Blessings Abound! I am Wishing you, and all of us, Health and Happiness! Prosperity and Purpose! Gifts and Goodness! Love and Laughter! Tenderness and Togetherness! And a much Happier New Year! Here's to 2021! 


Wednesday, March 18, 2020

What To Read While In Quarentine Or Self-Isolating

With the Coronavirus Pandemic, and everyone having to spend more time at home right now, I thought I would Curate a List of Books to Read, no matter your age or what genre you like to read. All Books having to do with Isolation, weather by choice or due to circumstances. Some of these books I'm sure you may have read, or at the very least have heard of. I have read them all, and would not recommend them if I didn't like them. Give them a try & let me know what you think. And add any other suggestions you might have.  

I felt so strongly about this that it is bringing me back to my Blog! I know it's been way too long since I have blogged. But I will leave that for another Blog Post at another time.  So, if you are looking for something to read while feeling isolated, I got you covered! 

Biography/Memoir: 

 A true story of a man so full of social anxiety that he escapes into the woods to live as a hermit. Living completely alone, he stole books to read for entertainment! I found this so interesting. I listened to this one on Audio. So good.


 Hiding in an attic with her Jewish family & others from the Nazis during World War II, 
this young girls diary is both enlightening & heart wrenching. 
Everyone should read this book in their lifetime.


A brilliant Doctor gets terminal cancer & writes about the ending of his life. 
This book is both eye opening and heart breaking. 
Be prepared, you will cry. 


Historical Fiction:

Set in France in World War II. But different than any other WWII fiction you've read!
You get the perspective of a young blind girl forced out of Paris to stay with her reclusive uncle, 
and a young German boy forced into the Nazi Party.  

 
A young family move to Alaska in the 70's to self isolate themselves.
Which as it turns out, in this case, isn't the healthiest thing for them. 
The backdrop of Alaska becomes another character of the book itself!


Science Fiction: 

I don't read a lot of Science Fiction, but this one was pretty interesting. What if there are parallel universes happening simultaneously? And what if you could access them? 
Would you explore the roads not taken? And what would you do to get back to the life you built? 


Christian Fiction: 

A young girl riddled with anxiety, won't go outside of the old Museum she & her mom run & live in. 
True confession time; I don't read a lot of Christian Fiction, because it can be cheesy & predictable, but this is neither, and I actually really liked it.


This book will challenge your thoughts on God and why terrible things happen. 
If you've never read it, now might be a good time. 
It's not what your think.
 

Mystery: 

 A little girl abandoned, grows up alone in the marsh land.
Someone is killed and the girl, now a young woman, is arrested & tried for the crime.  
But who did it? This one is also a good listen on Audio. 


Classic:  

For those of you, like me, who love to read or re-read the tried & true Classics, 
this one is for you.
Orphaned & an outcast, will Jane be alone and exiled again? 


 A great story of teens in the 50's and society's expectations of them.
When two of the young men find themselves in a situation 
that requires them to hide out in an abandoned church.


Non-Fiction: 

Need a great reminder to be thankful? 
Or how to find things great and small, in the everyday and ordinary to be grateful for? 
This book will stay with you forever & inspire to start your own list of gifts. 


Young Adult: 

From the writer of The Fault In Our Stars. 
This is a story of a girl who wants to escape, and the boy who wants to find her. 
The Book is much better than the Movie!


I love this Book so much! It's about a guy planning on dying and a girl learning to live. 
I love books that make you feel! Whether that is laughing or crying. 
But if you only read books with happy endings, this isn't the book for you. 


Children's: 

 For young boys. 
A story of crime, punishment and redemption. 
A good one to read it as a family.


 Well, as an extrovert, if I had to be left alone, 
what better place than the Plaza Hotel? 
So cute!


 If like me, you have grandbabies that are obsessed with Trains, 
there is no better book than this one! 
The opposite of Isolation, a toy train for the first time ever, finds himself out in the big world, 
and just want's to make his way back home! 


This is an oldie but goodie, if you can find it. 
An actual favorite of mine as a girl! 
What could a girl possibly find to do alone with nothing but a box and her imagination?!  


I believe you should be able to get most of these titles from Amazon, Kindle, or on Audible if you prefer to listen to books on tape. And even though most Independent Bookstores have temporarily closed down, many are doing curb side pick-up. So, Happy Reading. And stay safe. I'm Praying that you and yours remain Happy and Healthy.

Sunday, April 23, 2017

The Zookeeper's Wife


I read this book quite a few years ago. And when my son, Zach was in school and had to do a World War II book report I told him about it and gave it to him to read. Then when my girls were in High School and it came time for them to do this same assignment, I gave The Zookeeper's Wife to Lexi, and to Erica I gave what was to become one of her all time favorite books; The Hiding Place by Corrie Ten Boom. I don't tend to read a lot of Historical books, but when I do, I like the World War II Era, for both Historical Fiction and Non Fiction. And this is a really good story. It's a true story of Zookeepers who hid over 300 Jewish people in their bombed out Zoo in Warsaw, Poland, even while having it occupied by the military, thus saving their lives.


I was so excited when this Movie Trailer came out and I've wanted to see it since it came out. But not being a big "blockbuster", not all theaters carried it, and the closest theaters to my house were not showing it. We tried to squeeze it in over Easter weekend, but it didn't work out. So we had picked a weekday evening that neither of my girls worked, which doesn't happen often, but I ended up with a migraine. Then this weekend, we decided we were going! So after my girls got off work on Saturday, we drove from Gilbert to a theater in Mesa to see it, only to be told, there were only 8 seats left for the showing, and of course they couldn't guarantee we'd find 4 seats together, or not in the front row, etc. Um, no thank you. We couldn't help but wonder if maybe we're not supposed to see this film! But I really wanted to. So we tried one last time. Sunday evening we drove back to the theater in Mesa, and Finally got admittance into the Zoo! :) The book by Diane Ackerman, is based on the translated journals of Antonia Zabinska, and isn't always easy to follow, or really well written. But it is such a great story, that deserves to be told! The movie is visually stunning. And yes, this is one of the extremely rare instances in which the Movie happens to be even better than the Book! That's right, I said it!! 

Friday, January 20, 2017

My Thoughts On Inauguration Day;


I learned that when he says "Make America Great again", what he really means is Make America Rich. And as Kate Spade likes to quote Dorothy Parker "I've never been a millionaire, but I just know I'd be darling at it." I'd like to give it a try! So, go right ahead Mr. Trump! :) I was hopping his Inauguration Speech would be more Unifying, as opposed to Divisive, but I was once again disappointed. It was sad that there was less of a crowed than in years past. Though it is clear, we are a Nation divided, when just eight years ago we we're so United. And Proud to be Americans. Here is a little Post I wrote on that Inauguration Day!


My favorite part of the day was getting to see Elisabeth Dole. I'm a "Huge" fan of hers! (See what I did there?!?) I Love her, and It was so Amazing to see each former President, including our new President as well, make their way over to Bob and Elisabeth Dole to speak to them and shake their hands. It did my heart good! I was also very happy when Donald Trump Thanked Hillary Clinton for being there today. See, that wasn't so hard. I also should let you know that I am wearing my 'Madame President' shirt as I write this, and as I watched today, as it may be the last time that I get to wear it. Sad.



 A couple things I hope will change as Mr. Trump takes office; as you know, I Love Twitter and Social Media, but I strongly believe there is No place for mean tweeting, or bullying in the highest office in the land. Please stop. You have much more important things to worry about now. We're all counting on you. We want you to succeed. We want you to do great things. To Rise to the Challenge that is before you. And no, you didn't win the popular vote, which means the majority of Americans didn't vote for you. But that doesn't matter anymore. You are now their President. You must fight for them. People are fearful. And understandably so. They have heard terrible, awful things come out of your mouth, things about Women, Races of people, and entire religions.  It's up to you now to turn that around. You say you didn't really mean some of those things, well, it's time now to prove it! We are coming off an administration that whole heartedly supported Women. Who always took the high road, even when terrible things were said about him and his family. I am hoping you too, in your new position, can do the same. You have big shoes to fill. Will you be the champion for all Americans? Those born here, and those, like your own wife, who come here from other parts of the world. Our Children are depending on you. Be Great!


Thursday, November 24, 2016

Thursday, November 10, 2016

Thankful Thursday: EmPOWERed Women

Last week I had the Honor of attending the Dress For Success Gala. For over the past year and a half I've been volunteering, every month at my local chapter of Dress For Success here in Phoenix. I first heard about it when the company I work for, Vanity Fair Brands, held events to promote donating to this great organization. This year alone, Vanity Fair will donate up to 50,000 Bra's to Dress For Success! I am so proud of that fact.

If you are unfamiliar with Dress For Success they help disadvantaged Women get back into the work force. They teach them how to find and apply for jobs, how to build a Resume', Interview Skills, and more! When they get a job interview we Suit them, they receive an entire outfit; Pants or Skirt, a Top & Jacket, Shoes, handbag & Accessories, make-up and more. Then when they get the job, they came back in and are given a weeks worth of work clothes. I, as a Personal Shopper, get to dress them. It's fun to see the change in some of these Women, when they change their attire!

The Gala is their biggest event and fund raiser of the year. Held at a Resort in Scottsdale, you enter by walking the Red Carpet! There was a cocktail reception with silent auctions, raffles and more.

I found this picture on Arizona Foothills Magazine. My dress looks black in some pictures and really bright here, it's actually Navy Blue! :) The Lady I was talking to here I believe was there with GoDaddy. Many companies donated items or hosted a table. I love talking about Dress For Success, sharing how I'm affiliated with them and how they can get involved.

During Dinner and the Program, we heard from Vice Mayor Kate Gallego and her husband Congressman Ruben Gallego, about how grateful they are for all the work Dress For Success does in our community. Sharing how when you elevate a woman's position, you elevate the community! 

We had a Fashion Show of Women's Work Wear, and pay through the Decades. It was so Interesting! Arizona is better than most States as far as Equal Pay for Equal Work, but we still don't make the same as Men (Yet!) Then we got to see and hear Success Stories from the Women pictured above, who some came out of abusive relationships, poverty, or hard times, with little or no education. And with some Support from Dress For Success, found work and the confidence to get an education and turn their lives around! Some are now CEO's, Teachers, some work in Health Care, one fulfilled a life long dream of becoming a Pilot, after being told girls couldn't do that! It's Women like these who made this election so important to me. But it's also Women like these who are so unstoppable, I know there is Always Hope for the future of this Country! 

After dinner we received donations for this incredible organization. The Volunteers wore these light up bracelets, and anyone who donated $50.00 or more received one. It was exciting to "Light Up the Ballroom!"

 At the After Party, we had local R&B Artist Cece Peniston perform her Billboard #1 hit "Finally" & more. A good time was had by all, it was such a fun night!

These are some of the Amazing Women I have met through Dress For Success. I volunteer each month with Courtney, who's on the left. And Pat, who's in the middle, runs the Boutique. You too can help out your local chapter of Dress For Success by Volunteering or Donating: Clothing, Shoes, Handbags, Jewelry, Etc. They accept all donations, including Monetary! :) And if the clothing isn't necessarily Business appropriate, that's okay, they hold warehouse sales, where all the proceeds go back into Dress For Success! I truly believe Empowered Women, Empower Women! And am so Thankful they do!


Thursday, November 3, 2016

Thankful Thursday: Girl Power!


Yes, It's that time of year again! When Every Thursday of the Month becomes Thankful Thursday! A day set aside to remember to be Grateful for all we've been given. It can be anything! From the silly to the serious, the mundane to the meaningful. And I encourage you, at this Thanksgiving Season, and Always, to voice what you are Thankful for. And please share it with me here as well. Because as always, I am so Thankful for you, my Readers . . . 

 To kick start my month of Thankful Thursdays, I have to start with last night; The Election is next week, and Presidential Candidate Hillary Clinton made a stop here in the great state of Arizona. Political Rallies are free, you just have to be willing to stand in line. There were more than 10,000 people there! 

 I along with my Daughters were among the 10.000 plus. It was fun and exciting to be there, and even better to get to share it with my girls, and to see it all through their eyes.

We heard a few speakers, including Representative Gabby Giffords, who was shot at a Rally here in Tucson, AZ.

My Brave little Girl, Erica, fought her way toward the front, where she stood (in Thigh High Boots mind you!) for 2 hours, to get pictures of Hillary entering! While Lexi and I danced, and sat in the bleachers. And she did get some really great shots and video! And when she finally joined us, she did take off her boots for a bit! :)

 There were people of all ages, races, sexes, etc. there. We heard many chants, and saw a vast array of signs & shirts. I saw 3 others with my DVF shirt! Great Taste! :) We saw a T-Shirt that stated "A Woman's Place is in the Kitchen!" :0 We also saw one that said "A Woman's Place is in the White House!" ;) On a personal note here; I believe a woman's place is wherever she wants it to be!!

 Here we are, with Hillary speaking behind us! And after the rally, as we were making our way out among the crowd, (which went surprisingly smoothly, there were protesters, but from our vantage point, everyone was civil, the entire time we saw 1 person being escorted out in handcuffs) a man asked me what I thought of the rally, my answer was "I am excited to be here with my daughters, as this is the first Presidential Election they are able to vote in, and how thrilled I am that they have a Woman on the ballot!" Let us not forget, It wasn't all that long ago, women weren't even able to vote at all! And weather or not you agree with her, weather or not you vote for her, weather or not she wins, this is a great thing for all of us! And for that I'm Thankful!



Monday, April 11, 2016

My Mother In Law


On April 2nd, my Mother In Law, Bobbie Forbis, went to Heaven. 
We've been dealing with so much, and yesterday we had her funeral services.
As I reflect on my relationship with her,
and on the Woman she was; 
I was thinking what words would I use to describe her? 
Please allow me to share those Words, 
along with some of my favorite photos with you. 



The first Word that I thought of is:
"Playful!"

She was always willing to play with her Grand Kids! 
Even wearing a skirt,
she wouldn't hesitate to get down on the floor with them.

 Or even to jump up on a Trampoline with them! 

 
 She loved nothing more than being surrounded by her Family.

This was when she allowed herself to be thrown into the kiddie pool! :)

 
 She was Fun! 
And Funny!! 

 
  And apparently, she's always been that way! ;)

 
 Working at an Elementary School, 
she made the kids love her! 
On Halloween, and Everyday! 

 She always had activities planned for them to do, 
and she passed on her love for Jigsaw Puzzles to many of her Grandchildren!

 
 She just had a Playful Spirit about her.

See what I mean?! :)

 The last family wedding she attended was my sons, 
Where she was wheeled out on to the Dance Floor with us all,
where she Laughed and Cried, and Danced!



The next thing that came to mind is:
"Growing!"

And not just Plants,
though she was always really great at that!
And I, who does not have a Green Thumb, can really appreciate that!

 
She also grew a pretty Amazing Family!

 
 
A she produced my Husband didn't she?! :)

She would grow people literally by feeding everyone and anyone who came along!
Growing and making the most amazing food!
So many people at her funeral talked about their favorite dishes she would make for them!

 And one of the things I have Admired the most over the years
is how she was always continuing to grow herself! 
Having gotten Married at a young age, she hadn't graduated from High School,
So she decided she wanted to get her GED! 
She was in her 60's then! 

I'd visit her and she would tell me about her latest adventure;
She decided she wanted to learn some new skills
so she started to take some Classes! 
Like Cake Decorating.
And Sign Language Classes.  

She loved Music and played the Piano and Organ at her Church, 
And I remember one day she asked us if we wanted to go to a concert,
we said "Sure, what kind of concert?"
She told us, "Well, I joined a Bell Choir out at the College!"
Of course we wanted to go!
It was always something new!
And I loved watching her Grow!
I also loved the example she was setting for her Family,
that you can do anything you set your mind to. 
And you're never to old to learn something new!

She also loved to help other people Grow!
Teaching her Kids and Grand Kids how to make her signature dishes in the kitchen.
Teaching Children at Church and running Summer Camps.
Always Reading, always Learning and always Growing!


Another Word comes up when ever you think of Mom, and that Word is:
 "Faithful!"

Even in the little things, like feeding the Humming Birds!
But also in the Big Things in Life!

 
She was a Faithful Wife to her Husband. 

Renewing their Wedding Vows after being Married for 50 years!


 To Love, Honor and Cherish 
Till Death do they part.

She has always been Faithful to her Family!
Loving Unconditionally.

 This has been a hard loss for everyone.
My Husband & I have now lost all of our Parents,
and even more heartbreaking, 
our kids no longer have any living Grand Parents. 

 
 I am forever grateful she was able to be at the weddings of both my son's.

 And it breaks my heart to think of everything she wont be at in the future.
Graduations, Weddings, and the Births of our future Grandchildren, and so much more.

 We have had good examples of what a Marriage should be.

 We already miss her greatly, 
but, are happy they have been reunited in Heaven,

 I am thankful for all the Memories we will each will carry with us.

 
 And thankful that my kids had such Amazing Grand Parents!

 
 Just 2 months before she passed away we Celebrated her 84th Birthday!

 
 We are devastated by our loss,
but, happy she is no longer in pain.
We Thank You Mom for your Faithfulness and Unwavering Love.

 
If I could say anything to her, it would be;
"Thank you for the gift of your son.   
You raised a good man. 
And Thank You for all you've done in our lives, 
and all that you have been to us. 
We got it from here.
You can rest now.
We Love You."