Glee, On Stage & In Real Life!

My Mothers Day gift this year was a ticket ("Tickets? I Love Tickets!" can you name what movie that line is from?) well, my ticket was to see Glee Live! Phoenix was their first stop of the tour & their first live show ever! And I was there! I went with three of my good friends, and we had a ball!

Just us Gleeks! (Glee Geeks!)
Left to Right: Dana, Christa, Nancy & me*.

All the actors were in character, it was like going to one of New Directions competitions. All the students were there, none of the adult actors. They sang a lot of their great music. . .

"Don't Stop Believing!"

"Jump!"

"Somebody To Love"

Then my son Zach, who is a Senior in High School & is about to graduate. :( Had his last Choir concert of his High School career. He is in the top two choirs of one of the largest High Schools in the state of Arizona! (Don't mind me while I brag a little, he didn't get his musical talent from me!) When he told me he was asked to play a guitar solo in their rendition of Somebody To Love, I told him "You're the wheelchair boy from Glee!" :)

Here is a video from his concert. Zach is on the left side of the second row, then he comes forward to play his guitar. Enjoy!

Shade Friends & Family Event

Today & Tomorrow my store is having it's Friends & Family Event! And for me, that includes you! :) You can print this out & bring it into the store & receive 30% off your entire clothing purchase! And 20% off Swim wear! And for those of you reading this who are not in my area, or don't have a SHADE store near you, it is good online as well. Thanks for being a part of my Blog Family!

Happy Shopping!

Senior Year II - Prom Night

My oldest son Kyle graduated last year. But, his girlfriend of over 2 and a half years, Olivia, is a Senior this year. So he went to her Prom with her, they had a great time . . .

Olivia & Kyle

Flowers

Beautiful!

And Zach, who is a senior this year as well, wasn't sure he wanted to go to Prom, but finally decided to go, he asked Amanda, who (like Kyle) graduated last year, and ended up having an amazing time . . .

Amanda & Zach

Flowers

Smart girl, wore converse with her gown!

Zach goofing off with his friend Ethan & their dates!

So cute!

Great memories to last a lifetime!

On Being a Mom: Bloggy Boot Camp III

Okay, this is my last post regarding Bloggy Boot Camp! (at least I think so anyway!) Now I can get back to Blogging about more important things, like myself & my kids! :) I wanted to let you know about our last night of Boot Camp & an awesome project we did together. We met at the Party Pool at Xona Resort in Scottsdale, to see each other & get to hang out one last time, to say goodbye.

Here I am that night with a couple of my new Bloggy Friends:
Amy of Dealusional, and Sara of Super Saving Sara

Our "fee" to get into the cocktail party was a pack of Diapers. And I have to tell you, going to buy diapers again after all these years was a strange sensation. My "babies" will be becoming teenagers this year! It's a good thing my husband knew what was going on before he read my tweet: "Star4Laughs is buying Diapers for the first time in many years!" Otherwise he may have fainted right then & there! :)


Why Diapers? I'm so glad you asked! I remember when I had my Twins, we were on staff at a great Church, and they threw us an all Church Baby Shower. They were so generous, in addition to all the wonderful gifts we received, we got diapers! So many in fact, that we did not have to buy a single diaper for my babies until they were about 5 1/2 months old! That's a lot of Diapers.

But other moms are not as blessed as I was. And did you know that you can not use food stamps towards diapers? Moms can receive help in providing formula and food for their little ones, but when it comes to diapers they are on their own. So, many are making the diapers they have last as long as possible by leaving them on their children longer. And if you've ever had a baby with a terrible diaper rash, you know just how miserable that can be for everyone. Not to mention unhealthy for the child. So, We collected Diapers for an organization called Help a Mother Out! Together we brought over 2000 diapers for a local Diaper bank here in the Phoenix area. Happy Mothers Day!

The Sits girls Delivering our Diapers!

And I wanted to introduce you to another Bloggy friend I met at Boot Camp. She & I didn't end up in any pictures together. :( Shes Amy from Mommy Mentor. She's a lot of fun & helps Moms get their babies to sleep through the night. Where was she when I had new born twins & could have used her?! :)

And in Honor of Mothers Day, I wanted to share some "Momisms," things I've actually heard come out of the mouth of my Mother! And things, that my kids may or may not have heard me say a time or two. (though I will never admit that!)

"Do as I say, not as I do!"
(Except, we all know that actions speak louder than words!)

"If your friends jumped off a bridge, would you?"
(duh!)

"If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all!"
(something that has saved me a lot of grief in my lifetime,
words are something that once they are out there,
you can never take them back!)

"Always be yourself!"
(Thanks for the reminder, Mom!)

"If you sit on a table, you will be married twice."
(I don't get this one either,
I must have sat on a lot of tables in my day though,
because she said this to me a lot!
But, I still have only been married once,
and it's lasted 22 years & counting!)

I would love to hear some of the sayings you've heard from your mom over the years, or that you say to your kids? Come on, admit it. We all do it!

My Mom & Me! <3>

Happy Mothers Day!

Bloggy Boot Camp II

Day 2 of Bloggy Boot Camp:
Connection & Comprehension

I arrived in the morning,
(I didn't realize this picture was being taken of me, can you tell?)
Standing in line, I look deep in thought, good thing I had on sunglasses! :)

Waiting to get in hear!
I'm so grateful to have had the opportunity to attend,
to meet so many other Bloggers & great women!
And glean from their wisdom.

It's starting to fill up!
As always on my BlackBerry! Tweeting away. . .
It was so fun to read all the tweets from everyone in the room!
Trying hard not to lol at times!
Whispering to the person next to me in the middle of a session:
"I just Tweeted you!" or "Thanks for the Tweet!" haha

We were assigned different tables with each session,
so we could meet as many new friends as possible!
Exchanging Business cards with each other.
Finding each other on Twitter, Facebook & the Blogosphere!
What fun!


I can't begin to share with you everything that I learned,
but I will just try to highlight a few things & speakers. . .
Tiffany taught us how to build our Bloggy Tribe.
Commenting smartly, and really starting conversations.

Sugar (above) & Kadi (below)
Taught us how to Vlog. (Video Blogging)
Loved it, but think I need to be younger & thinner
to put myself on video that way! :)

Amy taught us about Branding ourselves!
And staying true to our "Brand"

Loralee (in Yellow)
Talked about finding your unique voice, and Blogging Authentically.
Julie (in Blue) is the one who took all these great photos
& shared them with all of us!
Thank you so much Julie. You Rock!

Hopefully you, who read my Blog, will soon start to reap some of the benefits
of the many things I learned while at Bloggy BootCamp. I truly love Blogging.
And just like I want to be the best Woman, Wife & Mom I can possibly be,
I want to be the best Blogger I can be as well. Thanks for reading.

Bloggy Boot Camp I

This past weekend I went to a seminar for Bloggers, called Bloggy Boot Camp! When I first started Blogging a couple of years ago, I joined a Blog Group called SITS (The Secret Is In The Sauce) It's a community of Bloggers that offer each other support, by commenting on each others Blogs. I've meet many great people, & became friends, that I got to know through reading their blogs & having them read mine & starting conversations. I love the community on the Blogogosphere!

(Tiffany & Heather, the original SITS girls)

SITS was started by two BFF's & neighbors, who Blog, & had this great idea of networking, & connecting Bloggers, Tiffany & Heather! Who now live in separate states form each other, but together, run this Blog Group that now numbers in the thousands!

(The Swag Bags! Yes I got goodies to boot!)

They started having Boot Camps around the country, to be able to give us Bloggers a chance to come together & meet face to face. And to give us the opportunity to hear other Bloggers teach & give tips on how to do what we do even better! I was so excited to go!

(Me, dishing it up with some other Bloggers at the opening night cocktail party & dinner!)

It was like Twitter come to life! It was so much fun. I met people who's blogs I read or have read, people I follow on Twitter, & who follow me. It was funny, some people you could pick out across the room, because they look just like their picture! Others you had to see their name before it dawned on you who they were & some after you saw their face & name still didn't come together in your mind who they were! I wonder which of those categories I fit in for all who met me for the first time. :) When I introduced my self to Tiffany, I said "Hi, I wanted to make sure I got the chance to meet you, my name is Star." And she said "Star! Laughing Through Parenting! The one with the famous Tattoo!" I had to laugh at that!

I'd love to introduce you to some of the Awesome Bloggers I met: (Above, Left to Right) Me, who you already know! ;) Sara from Saving For Someday, who is a woman with a great heart! Sugar from Sugar in the Raw, one of the funniest people you'll ever meet! Kadi from Digital Kadi, an Awesome woman who is doing some really neat things for women & girls! I love meeting other women who are so passionate about empowering our daughters! Ted who was representing Open Sky, an opportunity for Bloggers to earn money. Sara from Super Saving Sara, a really sweet, young woman who has a great head on her shoulders! And Nicole from My Real Review, who came all the way from Canada to be here! Some of these Blogs will let you in on some great deals & save you money! All these pictures were taken by Angry Julie Monday. Who was as sweet as can be, and not angry at all! (Talk about an Oxymoron!) Too many Bloggers, Too little time!

I'll introduce you to more Awesome women in some upcoming Blog posts as well, and share some of the great things I learned this weekend as well. The connecting made the whole weekend worth it! But the information I gained was priceless!

Take Your Daughter To Work Day

Erica, Mom & Lexi ready for work!

This Past Thursday was Take Your Daughter To Work Day. I was working close that night, John was out of town, so I had Kyle bring the girls up to the Mall after they got home from school, & did any homework they had. They were very excited to be going to work! First we went & had dinner together at Paradise Bakery in the mall, then it was on to work . . .

First they auditioned to be mannequins! But as you can see I would have had to be like the Red Queen in Alice & Wonderland, and say: "Off With Their Heads!"

I showed them how to fold our tops the right way! We use a folding board, to make sure they are just right! And that everyone in the pile is identical.

They did restocking. I had them check to see what sizes & colors we needed out on the floor, and where to find them in the back room, and put them out on the floor. They helped customers too, & learned how to ring someone up on the register.

They did some cleaning around the store as well. I could really get used to this free labor! :) But, don't worry, it wasn't all hard work though. They got to try on any clothes they wanted to! (After all that's what I do at work all the time!) And they went to check out a new store in the mall that had just opened!

At closing time I showed them how to close out the registers & count the money in the tills. And then to celebrate the end of our shift we got Dairy Queen! Job well done Girls!


The next day I found sitting on my desk at work this note from Lexi:

Mom, You Rock. Thank you for bringing us to bring your daughter to work day. I had a wonderful time helping and cleaning. If you ever need me to come help out any other time I will. I love you Mom soooo much. Sincerely Lexi.

Though they did ask me if they were getting paid for working! And Erica said that someday when I die, she wants to take over as the Manager at Shade! :) (She always was the bossy one! I wonder where she gets that from?!)

I was always the cool mom, who stayed at home. (My words not theirs! I'm sure I think I'm way cooler than they do! Duh!) But it's fun to now be the cool mom with the cool job!